Why positivity is so important ?

Positivity: Your best friend

Your muscles are paining, you have lost all your energy. It's your 99th pushup. "Its easy" "Come on bro" "You can't let it go!!". All voices strike you at a time, you feel positive. No matter what pain you were suffering, the motivation they gave you was enough for the 100th one!

Ever found yourself in such situation? Sometimes, right words at the right time can cause massive effect on us. We truly feel that we actually can do it, but something is pulling back from inside (negativity).
Suppose that you worked whole night designing a project, and next day you present it in front of all.
It was truly great one, you had included all the main requirements and used as less resources as possible, all clapped and praised at you, except a few. 

Around 90% said you congratulations, a few were jealous of you. Almost in all the things you do, there will be people who don't like it, who discourage you, be jealous of you. The main mistake you do is, leaving the 90% of your supporters, you spend your time in impressing the remaining 10%. You only have control over your feelings and desires. You cannot make them feel as you want. Now even if you become successful in impressing 5% ( not to mention, time and effort wasted ), there will be 99% of the time, at least one or two, who are against what you do.
OK, Tell me someone who is not having haters. Every successful person has haters. Even you will have haters when you will be successful. Does that mean you are not good enough because some people dont like you? Had everyone started to think in that way, none would've been called successful, since they have haters, and according to that, how can successful person ever have any hater?

Conclusion: Its a contradiction, being successful is independent on the number of haters.
Winston churchill once told : "You will never reach your destination if you stop and throw stones at every dog that barks"

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